I’m Engaged… Now What?! Your First Steps to Planning a Wedding at Pebble Creek Farm near St. Louis, Missouri

Outdoor wedding ceremony at Pebble Creek Farm near St. Louis featuring a real couple exchanging vows under the Missouri sky.

Photo Credit: Misty Jo Photography

If you’ve recently said “YES!”—congratulations! This is such an exciting season, and if you’re anything like most newly engaged couples, you’re probably wondering… “I’m engaged, now what?!”


Take a breath. You don’t need to have everything figured out today. But if a romantic, effortlessly elegant farm wedding just outside of St. Louis is your dream, then Pebble Creek Farm in Ste. Genevieve, Missouri, is the perfect place to start.


Below are the first steps every couple should take when diving into the wedding-planning journey—plus how Pebble Creek Farm makes these steps easier, calmer, and a whole lot more fun.

Bride and groom sharing a quiet moment at Pebble Creek Farm in Ste. Genevieve, Missouri with rolling countryside views in the background.

Photo Credit: Misty Jo Photography

1. Celebrate Being Engaged (Seriously—take a moment!)

Before the planning begins, enjoy the moment. Announce your engagement to friends and family, snap some cute photos, and soak in the joy.
This is the beginning of one of the best chapters of your life.


2. Dream Up Your Wedding Vision

Start with the big picture:

  • Indoor or outdoor ceremony?

  • Rustic, elegant, boho, or classic?

  • Small intimate gathering or a big celebration?

Pebble Creek Farm’s flexible event spaces—surrounded by rolling hills, open fields, and timeless Missouri countryside—fit beautifully with rustic-elegant and modern farmhouse vibes. Whether you envision string lights and open-air views or a cozy indoor setting, the venue helps your vision take shape.


3. Set a Budget That Fits Your Priorities

Before booking anything, discuss your priorities as a couple. Is photography the top must-have? The venue aesthetic? The guest count?

At Pebble Creek Farm, couples appreciate how transparent and customizable the venue’s pricing is. You can create a celebration that fits your budget without sacrificing style or experience—especially compared to high-cost St. Louis city venues.


4. Choose Your Ideal Wedding Date

This is where things start getting real! Consider:

  • A season that fits your vision

  • Holidays or family schedules

  • Missouri’s gorgeous fall foliage, vibrant spring blooms, stunning summer sunsets, or a wintry wonderland.

Pebble Creek Farm books quickly—especially for spring and fall weddings—so securing your date early ensures you have full access to the spaces and amenities you want.

Newlyweds walking hand-in-hand across the fields at Pebble Creek Farm wedding venue in Ste. Genevieve, captured at golden hour.

Photo Credit: Lance & Lola Photography


5. Book Your Wedding Venue (Your Most Important Vendor!)

Your venue influences almost everything—your style, your guest experience, your photo opportunities, and even your vendor availability.

Pebble Creek Farm offers:

  • Multiple picturesque ceremony sites surrounded by natural beauty

  • Modern gathering spaces with classic character and charm

  • A list of on-site amenities for couples and wedding parties

  • Convenient access from St. Louis or Cape Girardeau, while keeping the peaceful countryside setting

  • Endless photo backdrops: rolling fields, the white barn, creekside views, trees, sunsets, and more

Booking your venue early helps set the tone and timeline for the rest of your planning.


6. Build Your Vendor Team

Once your date and venue are secured, you can confidently hire:

  • Photographer

  • Caterer

  • Florist

  • DJ or live musicians

  • Planner or day-of coordinator

Pebble Creek Farm’s open-vendor policy makes it easy to personalize your team—plus, they can recommend trusted local vendors who know the venue layout and flow.


7. Tour Pebble Creek Farm (If You Haven’t Yet!)

Seeing the venue in person gives you the chance to:

  • Walk through ceremony and reception locations

  • Visualize décor and layout

  • Ask questions about logistics

  • Get a feel for how your day will truly look and feel

Most couples say they “just know” when they step onto the property—Pebble Creek Farm has that effect.


8. Start Planning the Details—At Your Own Pace

Once your venue, date, and key vendors are secured, the rest unfolds more easily.
Think:

  • Save-the-Dates

  • Wedding Website

  • Bridal Party Selection

  • Engagement Photos

  • Décor Inspiration

With your foundation set, you can actually enjoy the planning process.

Real bride and her father dancing and celebrating their Pebble Creek Farm reception with rustic décor and modern farmhouse details inside the venue.

Photo Credit: Desert Luna Photography

Ready to Start Planning Your Dream Wedding Near St. Louis?

If you’re newly engaged and searching for a wedding venue in or near St. Louis, Pebble Creek Farm in Ste. Genevieve, Missouri offers the perfect blend of rustic charm, timeless elegance, and breathtaking countryside views.



Your engagement is the start of an unforgettable journey—and Pebble Creek Farm is here to make the wedding planning process simple, joyful, and uniquely yours.



Schedule a tour today by filling out our Contact Form and take the first step toward the wedding of your dreams.

Bride and groom sharing their first dance at Pebble Creek Farm in Missouri, showcasing the venue’s classic interior and romantic charm.”

Photo Credit: Desert Luna Photography

Venue & Property, Real Weddings, Planning Tips, Photo & Video IdeasChelsey Overman